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Wednesday, June 6, 2012
Inhale and Exhale deeply.


I know. Its a very tough time for you now and I'm not saying this just to make you more miserable but hey babe, you know this is life. Its time for you to realize that you should step forward and not just stay at one spot hoping for miracles to happen. All of us, your girlfriends will put in our utmost effort to help you in moving on but its only you yourself that can take the huge step forward. In life, its a wild ride. You expect the unexpected and you cannot always wish for things to be your way. Not everything is fair.

HE. He has impacted you in many ways. Bad, worse, good, happy, take it as an experience/memory that you will never be able to share with anyone else. Don't force yourself. Be appreciative that at least God has showed you his true colors. Its not helping that you fill your heart with hatred and force yourself to forget him. Trust me, in that way...you can never get him off your mind. You have to let him go naturally. Don't pressure yourself. Cry if you have to but don't keep ignoring these feelings. Keep sharing with anyone that you trust. Its better to let it out than keep it in. It might kill you slowly, deep down inside. 

Nobody said this was going to be easy. But don't think that its impossible. Things will get better in time. If you keep thinking that you might not be able to get someone as great as him...you're wrong babe. You're still a teen and have yet to explore the life of an adult. You might not know where life takes you next. If your fate is truly with him, things will change for sure. But i'm begging you to stop thinking so lowly of yourself just because of what he said. He's just trying to bring you down. You have to be strong, mentally and physically. 

Let this journey of being single, teach you how to live independently, see things in a different manner and even better, I hope by being single, you'll appreciate the FREEDOM with limits. Just know that i'll be here always guiding you to the right path and i'm not forcing you to do anything. Your heart knows you better sweetie. There will always be a brighter side to everything, cheer up! 
xx